I've had this post on my mind for a long time. Just haven't had the time to sit down and put it on paper (or computer).
This is my list of the top ten things you can expect from your photo shoot with me!!!
These are all little truths that have become part of my life through Mdesign. Little things, some brought to my attention by clients or people around me, and some that I think about after a shoot and they always make me smile. These are the top ten reasons I love what I do!!!
If you schedule a photo shoot with me, you can expect:
1. I WILL.....hold your baby.
Ive been known to hold someones baby while shooting older kids (Im a mom, I can multi-task like that!). If you are a return customer or a friend, and your baby knows me, the first thing I want to do is hold them and give them a hug when you show up for a session! If mom forgets something in the car, I'll gladly volunteer to hold the baby!! And my favorite moment....if there is a spider or other scary friend interrupting our shoot, I'll happily hold the baby while someone ELSE fights that battle!! LOL
I love all children, and I really love children who love me back! If you child is shy or timid, I wont push myself on them by any means, but if they reach their arms out, I'm all over it!!!!
2. I WILL....tickle & tease.
Or do whatever it takes to get those smiles! I'll tickles the little ones, make all sorts of funny noises and even sing songs (badly!!!). And for the older ones....I'll tease them. Sorry mom!! I will probably mention boyfriends, silly words, OR their underpants....or mine! And I will might even talk about bodily functions! LOL, but it's all in good clean fun, and the smiles we get are SOOO worth it!
3. I WILL......put your newborn to sleep.
No matter what it takes! My favorite is to hold them tight, wrap them up and shhhhsh them quietly until they fall asleep. (Again, because I love to hold them!!) But I will do anything it takes, including sweating my butt off in a house with no AC on, or outside in 100 degree weather (where those crazy newborns seem to melt into a deep sleep!). I have never left a newborn photo shoot where a newborn did not sleep. I have got some serious patience! And I will do whatever I need to to get the shot! And (knock on wood)....it's worked every time!
4. I WILL.....gush about a shot.
Yes, when you child makes a perfect face, or turns a certain way, or the setting is just so perfect....I will look into my camera and get so excited. I will squeal and say about a thousand times "I love this!!!....this is so perfect!!!....I'm so excited!!!" Yep, and I'll smile the whole way home and immediately edit and post on my page. Because I'm a freak like that! LOL
5. I WILL......overshoot.
I learned this one from a child who was old enough to see through my tricks. I always say "one more time"....or "lets try this one last thing".....because I can never get enough, especially when I have a cooperative child! And once, a 5 year old called my bluff and said "YOU said ONE more....that was like 10!". Ha!! Right. I mean one more x 200!! That's what I meant! But when I'm on a role, there's no stopping me. And I'll always have just one more idea....always!!!
6. I WILL.....fulfill your child's request.
Sorry mom. But if your child wants a sucker, I'll use it for bribery during the shoot, then I'll give it to them! I once had a child ask me for a butter sandwich in the middle of the shoot! Luckily, we were at my aunts house, and I gladly went inside and fulfilled her request. And when she was done, she smiled and posed and did what she needed to! So yes, if they have a request, I'm there! And if they want Ice Cream after their shoot......heck, I'll take em!!! Ice cream always sounds like a great idea to me after a shoot! I get jealous when the parents say "Great job kids, now mom will take you to get some ice cream for being so good".....I wanna go too!!! LOL
7. I WILL....understand meltdowns and bad days.
I have 2 kids myself. And believe me, they are not 100% angels everyday. To tell you the truth, they're not 100% angels ever! So I understand the bad mood, the runny nose, the cranky day, or the meltdown. Do NOT be embarrassed, do not feel guilty. It's all about raising kids, and I'm with you!!! I will wait out a meltdown, or I will find a way to remedy a bad mood if I can. I will give your child time and space and try my best to liven the mood. Again, I'll do whatever it takes!!! But mostly for the parents, I'll understand!
8. I WILL.....Take my time.
You should know, my sessions aren't quick, unless they need to be. I take a lot of time planning each session in my head and packing my car and my camera bag just for your session. So no, I wont get there, take some shots and head out the door. Not me! I'll (hopefully) be there early, set up my shots, and take my time with your child. Im not crazy either, children don't last for hours, so I'll do my job quickly, but if they are willing to keep going, so am I!!! The session isn't over until they say so! LOL
9. I WILL.....chat it up.
Most of my clients know me, through mutual friends, facebook, or our past. So I will catch up with you during a shoot. I will learn more about your kids, and you will probably learn more about mine too! I kinda like to talk! LOL
10. I WILL......have a new friend when I leave.
This is my favorite one. I consider all my clients 'my friends'. And I will always remember you and your child and everything about our session. All my existing clients know that they have now become my friend. I will keep up with you and your kids as much as I can! I really really love when old clients send me pictures of their children by email to keep me updated with their lives. It's so sweet and really makes me feel like they appreciate me and include me in part of their child's lives! I love to hear back from old clients, and I really really love repeat sessions! They're my favorite! I love seeing how the kids grow and change, and getting to catch up with them and learn what's new!
THIS is why I love what I do. Because of the people I meet and the friendships I've made. MY FAVORITE PART!!!!